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      <image:title>About Me - Maternity experience</image:title>
      <image:caption>My interest in maternity has been life-long and personal. I began my education into the world of maternity in 2010 when I completed a year of a midwifery degree at King's College London. At the end of that year my daughter was born, and so I stepped back from this rewarding, but time-demanding training to focus on being a mother. Having had the opportunity to be with women during their pregnancies, being present during their births and in those early postnatal weeks, I witnessed how considerate communication, and in particular the ability to truly listen, had the power to transform how a woman felt about being a mother. The rigorous training I have undergone at the UK's leading psychotherapy institute has equipped me in addressing the need I had observed for women to talk and be heard by a professional. As a psychotherapist I have the skills and the time to listen and be with women, and although I am not a qualified midwife, my maternity experience enables me to understand the language around this life-changing time. My MSc research focused on women’s experiences of motherhood when their first baby dies at birth. My interest in maternity (pre-conception, pregnancy, postnatal, bereavement, attachment) continues to grow, and I am actively involved in the NHS as a member of my local NHS Maternity Voices Partnership (MVP), helping to improve maternity care for women and families. I am currently assisting a London university with designing their pre-registration midwifery programme to meet new NMC requirements. I have been invited to sit on a national maternity research ‘Project Advisory Group’. I regularly attend training days to enhance my psychotherapy practice, and to maintain up to date information in my specialist area.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>About Me - Education and Continuing Professional Development</image:title>
      <image:caption>MSc in Contemporary Person-Centred Psychotherapy and Applications – Metanoia Institute (2013-2019): Sheila Haugh UKCP Registered Person-Centred Diploma in Psychotherapy – Metanoia Institute (2013-2019) BSc Midwifery (first year) – King’s College London (2010)  Perinatal OCD: the increasing role of psychotherapy and counselling (2023)  The histories and contemporary lives of Traveller groups in the UK (2023)  ‘I Don’t Want this Child!’ – when Attachment doesn't stand a chance (2023)  Understanding and Working with Shame in Person-Centred Practice: From Implicit to Explicit (2023)  Can Insecurely Attached Mothers Have Securely Attached Children? (2023)  The Make Birth Better 7th Annual Birth Trauma Summit (2022) Psychological Trauma-informed care across the maternity journey - The Royal Society of Medicine (2022)  Gender Identities &amp; Sexual Orientations: A Contemporary Understanding of Sexology (2022): Silva Neves Current trends in the management of pregnancy loss. Baby loss-perspectives and pathologies - The Royal Society of Medicine (2021)  Working with Transgender, Non-Binary and Gender-Questioning Clients:  Building a Gender-Affirming Practice (2021) Current trends in the management of the infertile couple - The Royal Society of Medicine (2021) Person-Centred Theory: Working with People with Severe Mental Distress - Sheila Haugh (2021) PCCS Books Workshops: Art Bohart, Beverley Costa, Sheila Haugh, Nick Totton (2021) 6th Annual Birth Trauma Summit (2021) Current trends in the management of pregnancy loss. Baby loss-perspectives and pathologies - The Royal Society of Medicine (2021) Current trends in the management of the infertile couple - The Royal Society of Medicine (2021) 5th Annual Birth Trauma Conference (2020) Working with Surrogacy - BICA British Infertility Counselling Association (2019) 4th Annual Birth Trauma Conference (2019) Importance of addressing Mental Health during pregnancy – House of Commons, Westminster, London (2018) Time2Heal Study Day "Improving Care when IVF Pregnancy" - Brighton and Sussex University Hospitals (2018) Importance of addressing Mental Health during pregnancy – House of Commons, Westminster, London (2017) A risky business? Exploring risk perception and care provision during pregnancy and birth – The Royal Society of Medicine (2017) Developing Empathic Following Responses for Trauma Focused Work – Dr David Murphy Ph.D. (2016) Social &amp; Political Challenges of Being a Person-Centred Therapist – Professor Peter F. Schmid (2015) Positive Action for Mental Health – PCCS Conference (2015) The Neurobiology of Early Experiences and Affective Regulation – Affective Neuroscience &amp; Attachment Theory: Considerations For Psychotherapy Practice (2014) Forty Years After Meeting Carl Rogers: The Possibilities and Troubles of the Person-Centred Approach – Charles O’Leary (2014) Parental Conflict &amp; Attachment Theory – Dr Christopher Clulow Ph.D. (2013) Enid Balint Lecture: Psychic ‘Geodes’ – The Presence of Absence – Joan Raphael-Leff (2013) Post Natal Depression &amp; Insecure Attachment – Professor Lynne Murray (2012) BA in Music – University of Chichester (2003)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Privacy Policy - Privacy policy</image:title>
      <image:caption>Details about the information I process Description of processing The following is a broad description of the way I process personal information. Reasons/purposes for processing information I process personal information to enable me to provide psychotherapy/counselling, and to maintain my records. Type/classes of information processed I process information relevant to the above reasons/purposes. This information may include: personal details family, lifestyle and social circumstances financial details employment and education details I also process sensitive classes of information that may include: physical or mental health details racial or ethnic origin religious or other beliefs of a similar nature offences and alleged offence. Who the information is processed about I process personal information about my clients professional supervisors Who the information may be shared with I sometimes need to share the personal information I process with the individual themself and also with other organisations. Where this is necessary I am required to comply with all aspects of the Data Protection Act (DPA). What follows is a description of the types of organisations I may need to share some of the personal information I process with for one or more reasons. Where necessary or required I share information with: healthcare professionals social and welfare organisations central government financial organisations family, associates and representatives of the person whose personal data we are processing Additional reasons Undertaking research Personal information is also processed in order to undertake research. For this reason the information processed may include name, contact details and family details. The sensitive types of information may include physical or mental health details, racial or ethnic origin and religious or other beliefs. This information is about research participants. Where necessary or required this information may be shared with research organisations.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I offer weekday day time sessions for individuals. Sessions available online via zoom. £70 for 50 minutes (£80 for fortnightly or less frequent)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Since 2011, I have been giving talks and lectures across London universities and hospitals. These have been a combination of specialist professional lectures and lived-experience talks. See below for a sample of these lectures. Please email enpsychotherapy@gmail.com for bookings of lectures, seminars and talks.</image:caption>
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